I'm Moving On!

I think I've had a bit of an epiphany.  There are so many people in my life that I've let treat me badly, yet every time they showed a hint of goodness I would come crawling back. Well excuse my language, but fuck that. My ex treats his (my) friends like crap. He only calls maybe once every couple months, but when he does they act like they were never offended by his shadiness and become "best friends" again. Don't they realize they're making themselves weak? Why would you accept the friendship of someone who doesn't give a shit about you when there are so many other people in the world who can offer a meaningful relationship? By accepting this asshole you are giving him the power and telling him that his actions are okay as well as saying that you are so desperate that you are willing to accept a crappy person like him . Maybe next time he calls you should say screw you, you're not even worth the small amount of time you offer me. This isn't only my ex boyfriend, there are several people in my life who have treated me in some way similar to this. Not even by being distant, but by putting me down, etc. Now I think I'm finally becoming strong enough to put an end to relationships that aren't benefitting me and find relationships that will make me a happier and healthier person.